The Adoption Book of the Day for today is “I Don’t Have Your Eyes” by Carrie A. Kitze! This children’s book addresses the topic of “belonging” that many transracial and transcultural adoptees face. In the prelude of the book, Carrie Kitze explains that, “connections are vitally important to children as they begin to find their
Continue reading »The Adoption Book of the Day for today is “Attachment Parent: Developing Connections and Healing Children”!Thanks Michele Fried for this great review! If you live in Western New York, you are lucky to have Dr. Becker-Weidman and the Center for Family Development located here. Right in the heart of Williamsville, NY, Dr. Becker-Weidman and his
Continue reading »Today’s Tapestry Books Adoption Book of the Day is ” ABC Adoption & Me” by Gayle Swift with Casey Swift. An adoptive coach/mother wrote this award-winning picture book with her now-adult daughter. It captures the child’s perspective and explores the spectrum of adoption. One adoptee commented: “This shows adoption from the kid’s side and made me
Continue reading »It is common for children who have been adopted (in particular at an older age and those adopted from institutional care) to display a developmental age different from their chronological age. A child’s chronological age is their age based on their date of birth. A child’s developmental age is the age at which they function
Continue reading »by Megan Montgomery It is impossible to offer a nurturing environment that meets the needs of each individual child within an orphanage. No orphanage is capable of providing the same quality of care as a family. With that said, each orphanage will be different. Orphanages have varying levels of financial support, staff dedication and additional
Continue reading »by Megan Montgomery Helping your adopted child connect with their birth culture pays dividends. When you choose to adopt internationally the odds are great that you are adding diversity to your family. With this choice you are also making the decision to accept, value and participate in another culture-–your child’s birth culture. A few helpful
Continue reading »by Megan Montgomery The China adoption program has been placing children with additional needs and older children with interested families for a number of years. This path to adoption from China has often been called Waiting Child adoption or Special Needs adoption. Over the last couple of years, this process has evolved significantly. Today, families
Continue reading »by Megan Montgomery The media has recently been covering the topic of “re-homing.” Re-homing occurs when an adoptive family locates someone else to take in and care for their child without checking into the new family’s history, completing background checks, or involving their adoption agency or other legal entities in the change of custody. Interestingly,
Continue reading »by Megan Montgomery As a new school year approaches many parents are out purchasing school supplies, making sure the perfect backpack is picked out and are reading books about the first day of school to help their child get familiar or reacquainted with this school thing. Some parents decide to ease their child back into
Continue reading »by Michele Fried When: When to tell a child already in the home that you are planning to adopt is an answer you will need to decide on your own. This is very personal and it also depends on the age and development of your child(ren) at home as well as their personalities. There are
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